We have had a monster of a weekend. About the most monster weekend possible without drugs or alcohol.
Intentional monsters were created (Halloween) and non-intentional monsters too (ever seen a three year old still awake at 9pm after eating a bucket of sweets?).
We ran the full gamut, outdoors, indoors, public, private, home, away, work, play. Monster weekend.
I’m looking forward to Monday so that I can recover.
It’s a frickin’ beautiful life though, isn’t it?!
Happy Sunday, chimps.
I’m not a religious man, but my wife is. I see the value she gleans from the ritual, the discipline and the reassurance. She uses religion to escape the jungle of life.
Today is my smallest daughter’s christening. Even though I’m not a believer in the traditional sense, its a big day for us and luckily enough we will have a lot of family around to celebrate and bear witness.
It’s the culmination of the Christmas season of celebrations and family. I feel like I need to escape the Christmas jungle, but I’m also looking forward to one more session with the family.
Enjoy the day!
May you have peace and family around you.
And some chocolate….
Happy Christmas chimps.
The sun rises and sets every day and we are free to do what we want in that time period. It is the most democratic system we have – time limits on a day, a week, a month. Everyone will die. These limits apply to everyone.
Today is my daughter’s birthday. Our duty as parents can be defined like this: It is our duty to get her to a point where she can make her own decisions about what to do with the time available in a day.
Til then, we organise stuff for her. I am looking forward to a party later on today with family, friends and cake! Happy birthday my girl. We love you every hour of every day.
Before this week I had never seen a ballet concert. My four year old daughter had dress rehearsals and performances all week. It was quite a production involving over a hundred girls from 4 yrs up to about 18 yrs….some thoughts:
The sheer joy my girl got from the whole week reminded me of playing in a band. The practicing, the setting up, being backstage, performing….it all gets very addictive and I could identify with it.
The makeup is weird. Part of the show, no doubt, but little girls in makeup sits uneasily in my stomach.
Music plays a huge part in dance and ballet (obviously) and it was clear to me that some girls linked the dancing with the music, while others simply did not make that connection. They were just going through the motions as if it was a sport or a exercise at the gym rather than dancing to the music. My guess is to get any good at the dancing, you need to make that simple connection.
There are some parents out there who take their ballet VERY seriously.
The whole thing was far more fun and interesting than I thought it would be. Exhausting but fun.
Work-Life balance is important – we all agree on that. But what does it mean practically?
My next guest offers some insights. Balance needs to be planned a little and thought about with your family.
He literally built a space (a cabin….a bothy) for balancing his life, getting to nature, being mindful, planning meaningful conversations and experiences away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life.
It’s inspiring and I hope you tune in on Friday at chimpwithcans.com to hear his story and our chat.
My kid is sick. Ear infection. With the first one we left it too late and her eardrum popped. Let’s not do that again.
The other cut her leg. Germolene is a disinfectant cream. To me it always sounds like the title for an Allman Brothers song “oh Germoleeeeeene” …But I digress.
I am learning that with the girls there is always something to fix. Sort of like my old Audi. It’s part of being at school and growing up.
They bounce back way better than the Audi though. Like little trampolines.
Playing with a young child is humbling. It literally gets you on your knees.
There is a pattern I have noticed. If my daughter asks me to play with her, my initial emotional reaction is always no. I’m tired. I’m busy. It’s hard work.
But then once I process the internal ego, I accept and get on her level and the good vibes start to spread. We have fun.
Few things have forced me to rethink things like child’s play. It gives perspective and requires commitment and a break from all that adult rubbish.
It ain’t easy but it’s good bonding time that impacts me on an unexpected level.